Although a bright and able man, my husband is almost completely helpless when faced with even the simplest domestic chore. One day, in exasperation, I pointed out to him that our friend Mary had taught her husband Jeff to cook, sew and do laundry, and that if anything ever happened to Mary, Jeff would be able to care for himself. Then I said, "What would you do if anything happened to me?" After considering that possibility for a moment, my husband said happily, "I'd move in with Jeff."